WHAT DOES IT MEANS TO BE A GOOD FRIEND INDEED?
Friendship is the next thing after love, as a feeling or affection towards other guys or girls but more important, when it comes to ones worst time, when you can realize who are good friends and who are all those wanting only the good side of it, and does not want any thing to do with the bad times of a person.
I can give some tips for you to know who are your genuine friends and others who fake it and succeed most of the times if we are not intelligent enough or tuned enough to see through those guys. Intelligence always not necessarily means that you can judge a person immediately on meeting. On most occasions you will be taken for a ride by the most cunning guys on earth , and you tend to believe them, rather than those genuine ones who miss or doesn’t want to be seen enforcing themselves on you. If and when you realize the fakes, then it is always the best thing to do, is to go out of their way, and mend your lost friendship with genuine guyes, rather than sticking with those cunning and scheming ones, just because you don’t have a choice.
You can be fooled once, but the second time you will be smarter due to your previous experience. And as far as I can see there are no short cuts in seeing through a person, but the face expressions do give away, when you are not directly facing them, but can feel with intuition the thoughts or the sudden change of face expressions, which lasts only a fraction of a second before they manage to hide the same. One has to be sharp enough to get that fleeting moment to catch the thief. For a fake one simply can not be faking for 24/7, for the simple logic that they are faking it. The genuine ones may not want to impress up on you by forcefully trying to convince you of their gentility. They normally evades all the unpleasantness, if they don’t like it frankly or boldly saying ‘no’ straight back, which has to be taken for the genuine reason behind, which has to be found out.
But the most amazing stuff in friendship is that if you both are genuinely & sincerely in friendship, then the chances, that it will go all the way till your graveyard is possible.
Fakers come and go and for their quality they will be dumped by all, but always manages to find new pray to fool. But no single person can be fooled again and again. All good and bad things do comes to an end eventually.
Judging people and depending on those reliable guys are your ways to success, and partnering the wrong guy , who is a fake will be disastrous for some one who impulsively goes for a partnership, only to find they were fooled by their own so called genuine partners’ who turns out to be the biggest crook.
Be careful guys and gals for there are 90% chance that you are falling for the fake guy or girl, due to the very fact that our world of today is filled with 90% crooks and corrupt.
But before long there will be orderly punishment for all those crooks, as their life will only end, when they have suffered enough for their sins committed during one lifetime.
All the material gains also will be lost ultimately in some way or the other due to the fact that it was made by fooling others or simply cheating by fraudsters who are the majority in today’s world.
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